Does it really work?
The dating site is called SextLocalNow. But as you will see through out this investigation SextLocal. The first lie we came across was directly on the homepage of SextLocalNow. All of this is an outright lie because as you will see in our investigation this website is full to the brim with phony profiles and automated bots and much more.
The chances of these being legitimate positive reviews are zero. If these people actually joined the site and bought a membership then their review wouldn't be positive. Fake testimonials used to build trust to make you believe the site is legitimate. After you create your membership on Sext Local Now you are sent to another page where they keep stressing that the website is free but they ask for your credit card information to "verify your age to activate your free account".
Don't fall for the scam! All of this is a lie and they don't want your credit card information simply to verify your age which is all lie to begin with. They want your credit card information so they can charge your credit card.
Once they have your credit card information you're screwed. Shortly thereafter they will start charging your credit card recurring monthly charges to three different websites.
If you take a look at the screenshot shown below you can see circled in red the three different charges you will receive on your credit card. All three of these charges are recurring meaning they will continuously charge your credit card every single month until you finally realize what's going on and cancel these fraudulent charges. The "Free Lifetime Membership" scam. Screen shot of the 3 different charges that you get if give them your card information.
Once you make it into the members area of Sext Local Now the scams and lies still don't stop. As soon as we entered the members area we started getting instant messages from all different girls. Every time we tried to reply to the messages they were telling us that we needed to verify our age with a valid credit card.
Chat messages are not coming from real female members. What the website does is trick you by using high tech computer software programs called bots.
These chat bots can manipulate you into believing that you're interacting with a real person when in reality you're literally talking back and forth with a computer program. All of this information is verified by reading the terms and conditions where they openly admit that they're using automated programs on their users. Screen sot of a fictitious messages dispatched by software bots.
The epicenter of all of this is the biggest lie of all which is that almost every single female profile on SextLocalNow. These are all fake women that have been created from scratch by the website's owners using a variety of different ingredients such as bogus profiles picture copied or stolen from various websites on the internet, then making up fake profile information including age, location, astrological sign etcetera.
All of this is combined to build hundreds and possibly thousands of pretend profile pages on the site. And all of this is admitted to in the terms and conditions page so it's a verified fact that profiles on this website are fake. They even have a name for the fake profiles that use, they call their phony profiles "Love Stars".
You can take a look below and see some of the various examples of fake profiles we found on the site. If you take a look circled in red you will see the letters "LS", this is an abbreviation for "Love Stars". I say, who cares!? Technology is allowing people to connect on different levels that weren't possible before.
Most relationships start online, so why shouldn't our hook ups be digital too? Sexting is convenient, fun, and there's no chance of STD's just make sure your computer or doesn't get a virus and don't click on any suspicious links, haha. Obviously, you should sext your partner! Even if you're not in a long distance relationship, sometimes being in separate places in town is long distance enough. Or if they go on a trip, you should definitely remind them what's waiting for them when they get back!
Sexting your partner is a great way of staying connected during busy weeks or to build sexual tension before getting home in the evening.
Before a date night or a romp in the sheets, you should set the tone for the night early in the day with a few sexy texts. You can decide how intense you want to get depending on how coy or slutty you want to come across. If you're trying to play innocent, send a few slightly suggestive texts and play like you have no idea what you're doing.
On the other hand, if you're looking to get nasty later, you should set the slutty tone earlier by telling your partner exactly what you're going to do to them later. Regardless of how far apart you are, sexting is something that will keep your relationship flirty and sexy as you tack months — even years — on to your relationship. Use your phone to your advantage.
Instead of scrolling mindlessly down Instagram, send your lover a cheeky text and see how excited they are to see you later! Plus, if you're bored with your sex life sexting can open some doors! Tell your lover about your fantasies while they're out and about. Come up with sexy scenarios to act out later when you're together. It can be easier to talk about your fantasies over text if you're shy! Okay, so I know I've talked a lot about sexting and relationships… but let's be real, the majority of sexting probably happens between single people!
Sure, you might think think that girl was flirting with you or you thought that scandalous subtweet was directed at you, but you could be very wrong! And there is nothing worse than sexting someone who doesn't want to be sexted by you. You end up embarrassed, and they end up feeling uncomfortable or violated at the very worse. You have to make sure that you're sexting a willing participant or you could end up blocked and reported.
So, make sure that the girl that you've been flirting with has been actually flirting back. Make sure that girl who slid in your DM's doesn't just want to be friends. Do this by straight up asking or by testing the waters with slightly sexy texts. If she responds with something equally or more salacious, then you're in the clear! If not, then apologize and find a new person to text. It's not hard to find people on the internet who are willing to text over apps like Kik or instant messager.
You just need to find the right message boards. Just be careful, because the internet is swarming with catfish. The last thing you want is to find that the babe you've been sexting is a year-old man.
And do yourself a favor and don't be the catfish. That's some seriously bad karma, and the last thing you want is Nev and Max knocking on your door. Sext is literally short for sexy text… so obviously you should be sending texts containing dirty words.
Here's where a lot of people go wrong though: If you're looking to lay on your back and read something dirty without having to respond, you should be reading 50 Shades. Seriously though, it's not fair for your partner to be writing you a dirty novel in real time, while you say nothing in response.
That's just poor manners! Your partner wants to get off too, so make sure that you're getting them off by responding with some stimulating material. And no, "oohs" and "aahs" and "that's hots" aren't going to cut it. You should be responding with something of substance! These are my least favorite sexters, the lazy ones. So don't get lazy! Contribute to the scenario your partner is setting up for you! I know it's hard sending fully thought out messages while all your brain blood is elsewhere, but you need to try.
Words can be really sexy if you do it right. Okay, so you don't know what to say. Maybe you're the sexy silent type. Maybe you're better at showing rather than telling. I'm sure that there is a fantasy you're dying to live out… so describe that.
Does your partner really like when you do a certain position? Tell them you're thinking about doing them doggy or cowgirl or whatever. Tell them how much you'd rather be fucking them in the car rather than being stuck in traffic. Tell them what you're going to do to them when you get home.
Or rather, tell them how you want them when you do come home. Let your filthy imagination run wild. I'm sure you can come up with something that will get their blood pumping, it's just a matter of tapping into your dirties urges. And to continue on the "getting lazy" tangent… maybe you're not the lazy one, maybe the lazy one in the situation is your partner. In that case, call them out! Tell them to respond with something worth while or they're not going to get any more sexy texts.
If you're sexting a stranger from the internet or from Tinder, kick them to the curb and find someone else. You're worth more than someone who can't be bothered to sext and sends you to bullshit like "haha, then what?
Who said that sexting had to be an illustrated novel? I am of the belief that if you feel comfy with sending nudes along with your sexy texts, then you definitely should! Even if you don't send full body nudes or pics of your face, any visual aids are probably appreciated. If you're sexting women, then you should be more word-heavy than anything else. We single handily keep the trashy romance novel business alive. So, if you're trying to get a woman off, send her a heavy word to photo ratio. If you think about it, women can get off to an entire romance novel with only the cover for a visual.
So, keep that in mind when you're sexting. If your target audience is male, do the opposite. Men are visual creatures. They single handily keep the porn industry up and running, so why not send him centerfolds of you!? You should be sending more pics than words with a guy. However, you don't always have to follow this formula! Your lover might express that they want something different or is okay with words alone.
Okay, so no one is ever without a phone. This basically means that no one is ever without a camera or a camcorder either! So, why should your photos remain still? You should definitely be shooting short videos to send along with your sexts, especially if you're on Snapchat.
Snapchat makes it way too easy to not send pictures! Using videos is a great way to build the tension if you're at home masturbating while sexting. You can use videos to let your partner know exactly what you're doing while you're messaging them.
You're basically sending them porn in real time! Send them a video of you feeling yourself up along with a message about how you're thinking about them naked or thinking about the last time you slept together. As your messages get hotter, so should the videos you send! Your videos should build like sex would build in real life: Keeping this in mind, you should pair videos of you getting more and more undressed with messages describing sexier things. Keep things linear; you don't want to send a message describing something soft and sensual while you're going ham on yourself in a video.
This will allow for a total mental and visual experience. If the visuals and the messages line up, it's more immersive, and it will feel less like impersonal sexting and more like you're actually in the room with the other person. When you're finished with masturbating, make sure you send a video or at least a photo documenting the aftermath.
Nothing is sexier than seeing the fruits of your labor. Sexting in the privacy of your own home, in my opinion, is paramount. It's really nice to be able to set yourself up with everything you need to comfortably masturbate and go to town on yourself. This way you have the freedom to do whatever you want and take all the time you need. I encourage you to straight up clear your afternoon and settle in for a long evening of sexting and masturbation. You're not going to want interruptions when you're sexting so put a sock on your doorknob while you're at it to ward off any roommates that might intrude.
Sexting, especially if you're in a long distance relationship, should be something you dedicate your time to. I guarantee your partner will notice if you're multitasking. And if they're smart they'll call you out on it. So get all your responsibilities out of the way so you can focus all of your attention on the task at hand: While, I think that you should definitely isolate yourself while you're sexting with your partner — especially if you're in a long distance relationship — there's nothing wrong with flirting throughout your day.
If you're at work and feel like you need something to take your mind off of things, there's nothing wrong with sending some covert sexts. Just make sure you don't get caught, because it could be a huge HR issue if you're caught sexting at work. It could even be a fireable offense, so if you're going to sext make sure you're not on a company phone or sexting on your laptop.
But if you are going to sext at work, you should tell your partner how much you miss them or how much you'd rather be fucking them at your desk rather than working on it. It also could be really sexy to send some dirty pics while you're in the bathroom. If you're rocking a semi-chub at work, why not take a shot of it while you're at work and send it off? Just make sure you delete it off your phone after! You don't want to get caught with work-nudes on your phone! Send a pic of your cleavage to your lover while you're in your work clothes.
Maybe it'll spark a sexy secretary fantasy that you can play out later roleplaying is awesome! When you're sexting — especially if you're sending pics — make sure you're sexting someone you trust. There has been a lot of revenge porn scandals lately, and the last thing you want is to be a victim of this terrible crime. Revenge porn — while it's now illegal in a lot of states — can still do damage to your mental health and reputation.
So I encourage you to make sure you're sending nudes and sexts to someone with a moral compass or someone you trust. If you feel you can't trust them all the way, leave your face and other identifying markers out of your pics.