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These sites include SeniorPeopleMeet. Our Time is not just a regular hookup site that we normally investigate. This is a mainstream dating service for mature individuals seeking to find someone special to share their life with.
But as always just because it's a mainstream dating site doesn't mean it's legitimate, it could be a scam. Read the full investigation below. One thing we noticed right off the bat is that you can't read or even see the subject lines of any part of any email messages that you receive until you upgrade and buy a membership on this website.
We're not saying there's anything wrong with that, we're just pointing out the fact that you need to buy a membership in order to read the emails. Many times in the past with other fake dating sites that we reviewed they have used this tactic, sending multiple email messages but if you wanted to try to read them or reply to them you needed to purchase a membership.
By no means however are we saying that OurTime. Fake profiles are a big problem in the adult dating industry. We've covered this topic hundreds of times in the reviews that we've done. Digging through the terms and conditions page of OurTime.
They discuss something called "test profiles". They are admitting to creating test profiles for the purposes of testing the functionality of their dating site and to improve service quality for their members. We believe that these tests profiles aren't used in a malevolent manner.
We don't think they're creating these tests profiles to scam you based on the experience that we have with this dating service. Unlike other profiles the test profles seem to be used for legitimate testing purposes and not to create an army of fictitious profiles to scam you.
Below we've included screenshots from web users who have joined Our Time. We've included these reviews just so we can give you a more balanced investigation.
The first reviewer says beware of fake profiles. He says that he chatted with five different people which all turned out to be fake. He said he's very upset to think when the profiles you thought were real but aren't. These fake profiles are not created by the site, these are romance scammers who join the site and then initiate conversations with you and eventually will ask you for money for various reasons all of which are lies. Once again the website is not responsible for creating these fictitious profiles these are romance scammers who do this for a living.
They work out of boiler rooms usually located in Nigeria or Ghana Africa and send fake messages and try to lure lonely people into sending them money. Romance scamming is a billion dollar industry as outlined in this Huffington Post article. The article talks about how the scammers sit at computers overseas hunting for their prey on social networks as well as dating sites.
They all have a dead wife, some family member die due to a violent crime , one child, born out of the USA. Are suspicious of you. It goes on and on. The very worst thing that happened was someone hijacked me and I became a 6 foot 5 man. I had Amex cancel the renewal they hooked me once and surely they were not going to get me again. I think the only way to meet someone is to let it happen.
O Boy, I see by reading the notices below that I am far from alone. Today I had to cancel my credit card to disable their automatic renewal charges.
The merchant phone provided to my credit company is dead. The credit company rep. And there is no way to block messages from people out of the area, so you get these canned messages from people all over the country. This site is a waste of money, but worse, a BIG waste of time. Thus website is a joke. They steal your money and get away with it. I had someone hack into my PC and change my passwords. I get messages and when I say Hi they run the other way. Decided to read the reviews and could have saved my money.
I thought POF was bad but at least it is free!! Live and learn read the reviews before you sign up I rate the site at You are absolutely correct. You have to be quite careful in just moving the cursor. Set up a profile, uploaded a pix and then……all I could do is click on yes, no or maybe.
I come to find out that in order to READ any messages, send any messages or use on-line chat, I must upgrade! I sent an email to the help center- all generated responses and now they are sending it to their technology dept! I also used a Visa card with the exact amount so they could NOT renew anything. Boy have I learned my lesson! Will say this is a pos website…signed up for one month and billed me for 6. They take your money and run,be very afraid!
I also tried to sign up for 1 month but was billed for 6 months. I did call their customer service line and they credited me for 5 months. But I was immediately aware that when I viewed a profile the system sent out a generic message to the person viewed. Same when someone views my profile, I get a message. This is the worst dating site EVER! And the following month, without my permission, they charged my card again! Did I have him then! I told him that I had supervised a call center before and that what his company had done was illegal.
So I saw that it was still up and not completely erased from their system like I had asked. I told him that there was no page that I had clicked on to renew my subscription whatsoever, and that they had just decided to steal from my account without my permission!
He got scared and gave me a confirmation to return my money back to my account within 72 hours. They also have partner single sites that will start to bombard you to join them, so watch out for them as well as I found out they are all related to each other. These guys are based in Costa Rica. If you flip down through this thread, there are numerous posts similar to yours, generally saying that refunds are impossible to obtain. I agree with many of the comments above.
Almost all of the replies I received were very obvious scams. The addresses were all marked ARIPO whatever, wherever that is and numbers spelled out onesevensix etc. This should be very easy for them to create criteria to filter these very obviously fake profiles out.
I got wind of the problem two days in…. I deleted my pics, and went thoroughly through my profile and deleted all, physically, then canceled my subscription, and they did that immediately.
So we shall see on the 23rd of Sept if they try to get more moola. Oh yes, I sent some feedback to them.. This site is nothing more than an internet scam. When you do they give you a clock to upgrade even more. I guess put your name at the top of the list. Once I figured out how to work the website one of the worst interfaces I have ever seen. Now to the meat of the site. Over half the ladies that responded were sending personal emails or phone numbers and as the site says these people are scammers looking to pray upon you for money.
Many of the responses I got were from people who never filled out their profile! Many more never read my profile! I could tell because we had nothing in common at all! Some were contacting me from the other side of the country! Fortunately i found this page before a subscription. My intuition warned me insistently. They did not offer any test for 1 week…. I remember that they promoted with a sentence … you only get what you put in… something like that….
The site is uncomfortable — the pictures shown to you are very small thus you have to click on them immediately shown to the owner of the profile in concern.
The site itself is very ugly — made up like advertisements for articles in a supermarket. It is not worth it — and i feel really released having not subscribed there. I search for another one. It says when you read the agreements and about the site that you can not see your flirts etc unless you upgrade. If you are scanning and see someone that is really someone you would like to connect with, then upgrade for a month,.
Good luck upgrading for just one month. I joined the site in November of In May of I wished Larry a happy birthday and we started a conversation. We finally met the second week in June and instantly liked each other. Our relationship progressed and on August of we got married. One year later, we are very much in love and we thank Our Time for getting us together. Congratulations to both of you. Your man is fortunate as the imbalance in numbers of men to women on this site is advantageous to the ladies as it is on all dating sites..
A man needs to catch lightning in a bottle so to speak to have a chance, obviously some do, most do not. I decided to do it after putting a profile and photos on for a week and realizing you cant even talk to anyone to see if real I got on for a special fee of Then all the replies i had 3 were real people the rest scammers i called about it and the over price not going to get my money back and said i had spoken to others they said they were billed for another month after putting the no renewal on the site so they keep billing you anyway.
I asked about all the scammers with some poor persons photos they stole I am sure mine will be in the uk or texas as well now as they teak them off these sites they said we get our customers to report the scammers i said i dont get paid for this ,you are being paid my me to have real people on there he had no answer. They still wont refund me and take me off there so am in it for the long hall till sept 6th my month is up This is a terrible site and dont even try to compensate the customer they just take and take beware not worth it.
Oh plus hardly anyone in my area then they send me guys form the opposite ends of the country lordy so blatant. I am sending a letter and contacting the Attorney General Fraud Division about this. You will be billed anyway, but at least you can print out the page showing the Attorney General that you have that option turned off.
That is my problem I requested no automatic renewal on May 31, only to find out that their records as per my account summary show I requested renewal on July 31, , which is not true. I wanted off this site and was billed for the next 6 months. Any help out there on how to be done with this OurTime site???? My account site shows that I declined renewal on May 31 then shows I changed it on July 31 …. I did not total fraud.
I was scammed for a month subscr. I learned my lesson. Good luck to all you nice people out there. Total waste of money. Matches sent are not selected from the criteria you choose. Many responses without pictures, many immediately asking for your email address. Customer service is absolutely non existent other than canned automated responses that have nothing to do with your questions.
Save your money, you will have better look meeting someone in a grocery store or book store,. Extreme caution on this site. If you use a pop up blocker or quickly delete the popup your service is renewed. I say promised because the credit has not shown up on my credit card statement yet. Site is very heavy on upselling and has confusing options.
Some your are billed for unless you opt out instead of opting in. I have encountered Fraud all the way fake profiles and you know the rest.
The one advantage I have is that close relative is a Federal Officer they picked wrong person to screw with Ha. I just wanted go to dinner see a show have a laugh Not a hook up this site is a Ruuse. This is a horrible dating site. I would almost call it a scam. Stay away from it! Just a big waste of money. Stay with the reputable sites. I met a wonderful man on this site 2 yes ago and we got married last month. The site had people in my area and the price was about the same as the other sites but with people my age and men that were looking for a woman the same age.
It was a great experience for us. Beware of registering for Our Time. By putting in one keyword, I got 40 profiles that were exactly the same with different pictures and profile names.
This makes the Our Time membership numbers seem much larger than they really are. It is also possible that these people are all scammers and that Our Time is not doing an adequate job of protecting members from scammers. After two weeks of using their service and discovering this, I asked for a pro-rated refund I was willing to pay for the 2 weeks I had already used but was told that no refunds are ever given under any circumstances.
I have already dealt with a scammer…. Cancelled but unfortunately I paid for 6 months. So far, I have talked with 8 different people and had conversations or chatted. The majority were scams. They get a picture from somewhere and then, all they will do is text or chat with you. They will never offer to meet you or call you. I have had different profiles give me the same phone number to text. I am VERY disappointed in this website, and have paid hard earned money for something that is not even legitimate.
I have been on for less then a month. Almost every contact I have received requested my email and said that today was their last day on. Believe me — not so easy to cancel. The scamming is horrible. I thought I would try this out because I am a bit of a loner and thought it would be nice to maybe meet someone to chat with. Now I remember why I am a loner, lol. I subscribed to this site a week a go. I got a message from someone who was interested.
He saw my profile, he seemed nice, I responded to some messages talking about travel, nothing heavy. Then he disappear, so I sent him a message saying that I had read many complaints about this site, so if he was not the person he was, that at least responded, just say goodbye, not interested.
I got back the nastiest most offensive mail I had ever. He knew I was a liberal and a scientist. First he said that he loved my photo. Now he is attacking me for being a liberal and that he is not attracted to me physically. I thought he was a nice person, he had this photo of him as a soldier. Be careful, I think that we should get together and file a joined complaint. We could try to communicate with people, but we do not deserve to be abused.
I have been trying for a week to cancel mine, It wont let me cancel it. The no thanks option just stays idle. There is no contact number, and it want me to enable something on my computer. OurTime does have warts. But check to make sure. Now for the actual experience of using OurTime. The site randomly selects from three or four such messages. There may be other activities that automatically send one of these messages. No amount of wishful thinking will make this real. It would be like dating my own grandmother.
Thank you so much for the info on stopping automatic renewal. Thanks for an honest review, and the great instruction for canceling. I am glad to know my instincts were right I will not be wasting my time or money on OurTime or any other dating site. Too scary out their for this ole gal. I have subscribed to ourtime. I would opt for one month, immediately opt out of the auto-renewal, and browse until it ran out. I suddenly get all of these messages!
Sometimes more that one. So, I subscribe again, only to see they are either women with no picture, no profile info or someone that lives over miles away! This is beyond coincidence. This happened to me as well. Subscription ended and within two days I had 6 Favorites and 19 Messages!
You can opt out of the emails this site will send you. Scroll down to the bottom of the email and unsubscribe. I completely deleted everything that has to do with this site and no longer receive any type of communication from them. So nice to have that aggravation out if my life. I signed up for six months on this site. Have found that most people I have contacted or have contacted me do not write back or their site is immediately removed.
Without any notice I was automatically renewed with upgrades to double the rate initially paid. It is impossible to contact them.
They do not have a phone number for customers. I did email canceling but my account has already been charged. My bank is disputing this charge. I believe this is a scam to get money from older people.
Since these bozos are apparently based in Costa Rica, nothing will get done. Perhaps a better strategy is to complain to your local ISP provider that this is a fraud and suggest that they block access to this site for their subscribers. Little concerned that the latest scam seems to be retired cops. If things are not working it does not matter where Our Times is, a scam is a scam.
This site is filled with scammers…all wonderful God-fearing guys who make between , to , a year and who immediately ask for YOUR email address or text no.
Ladies beware of these contacts. This website takes advantage of those of us who are hopeful that seeking a relationship within our age group will filter out some of the issues encountered on sites like Match. After no success, I set my parameters to receive matches from people who are over years old.
This site seems to be a money making scam that preys on mature adults. Stay away and keep your money. I signed up for 1 month and was charged for 6!!!!!! Customer Service is non-existent. Run like hell — Never get any messages, Site say talk to them now and as soon as you click the link message off line. After paying for the 6 months they ask for more money. The settings for local and age group change. This site is bogus. Most were so not what I was looking for.
I am a non smoker. I am relying on networking or just pure luck. My subsciption ends on June 20th! My experience with all online services with auto-pay is they are nearly impossible to cancel. Avoid at all costs!! Who would give a negative review to a factual observation that the key to disabling auto-renew is almost impossible to find? OurTime is a horrible site. I signed up with basic information for the free membership.
Within a few minutes notifications appeared indicating I had several e-mails and profile views. Of course you have to pay to be able to read and send e-mail. Thankfully, I only signed up for one month. The e-mails were scammers from overseas.
Rather than allowing members to opt in for automatic renewal, OurTime requires members to go through a many-step process to opt out of automatic renewal charges. The site has NO satisfaction guarantee or proportional refund. The site appears to benefit from scammers so newcomers will surely get mail and want to pay to read their mail. I have written two questions in the customer service box and have received a response to neither.
I would give negative stars if I could. Try a different dating site. I signed up for 6 months and turned auto renewal off. I still lost a month I paid for though. The service is not worth the price. The quality of the people on their website is not their fault, but the lack of customer service from Ourtime is unacceptable and infuriating. I found the women I met represented themselves accurately on the site.
Some may have had a better opinion of themselves then I had but so what? Some rejected me, some I rejected. The site kept my dance card full.
There are some girls who are clearly on to rip off older guys. That aside, I thought the real women on the site were honest and high quality.
Some extremely attractive, some attractive, some not attractive. Some where kind in our interactions, some rude, some simply disappeared. Some are horrible, most are good if you keep your expectations reasonable. This is a good one. This review is a scam. Our time is the worst site out there!
Must be 50 plus 2. Must pass background check 3. If you mange to get pass the background check and found to be a scammer. You will be prosecuted. Payment will be pay as needed.
Be it 1 month or years. Pay for what you need. Not the one that shows how you looked in ! If there is anyone who feels the same leave a comment and I will respond as well as return with a web site. And our time I have registered my rules! Sounds like this site sucks the bag was going to join but with all the horrible reviews I changed my mind.
Sounds like a hookup site me. So sad that people cant have fun and enjoy meeting people especially at our age. I would got to a bar if I wanted to hook up. Who needs to pay to play? Most of my contacts were through chats. I found repeatedly that someone would claim to live in my area but could not even respond to basic questions about places they liked or restaurants they enjoyed.
Most have strange language patterns, are widowed, and use LOL way too much. They were always good looking and some even had more than one picture. One sent me his web page for his mining and precious metals company. The grammar was terrible and it was 3 pages of generic info including two totally different dates as to when the company went public.
Needless to say, there is no such company. Another guy was supposedly from the town I grew up in — very small place. I reported 3 scary people but they did nothing. I would guess I was contacted by 15 men who appeared to be scammers. I met my late husband on Match years ago so I know how to Internet date. I have never seen so many scammers before. Guess because I am a fairly good looking blonde and showed myself to be a business owner, they thought I was an easy mark.
Even simple screening and basic policing based on complaints should be expected for the fees they charge. The site itself is easy enough for anyone to use. I am male and would say that there seem to be decent women on this site and the potential to meet someone meaningful appeared quite feasible. However, my experience has not been promising nor productive. I do have those but it hardly matters. Women seem obsessed with the height of a man.
The worst case scenario are these: I cordially send them a complete message, then I do not hear from them. What is that about? Then on more than one occasion, a lady thanks me for sending her a lovely message. She then asks me numerous questions.
Sorry, I do not understand such arrogant behavior. There must be a better way! Recently joined the Not Free Ourtime dating site. Did not filter criteria when they ask you your preferences- height, location, age group- seems like they just sent whatever is on there.
Then- after only 48 hrs. Someone had rewritten everything I had posted! Saying rude comments and completely fabricating anything I am about! No customer service, no phone number with a live person. I deleted profile after paying for 48 hrs.! I can totally relate. Unfortunately, in this world it seems negative outweighs the positive. Keep the faith, and keep trying. There are still decent people out there. I can really relate to Phil. I have been a paying member since April 1, I have been hit by at least 3 scam artists.
I am a widow, and believe that honest is the best policy while on these sites, but I am NOT ignorant! Nothing worse than people not communicating back with you when you try to communicate with them. I feel that OurTime should take the time to search and protect people. Could eliminate the hassel! Supposedly eHarmony DOES check people for honesty about status divorced, widowed, separated , but I also received questionable matches there.
Three times during my 4 months, I received messages from accounts which were hacked — so it happens a lot. I tried e-harmony once based on their pitch about extensive compatibility testing.
That seems to be true, but the whole suite of questions totals something in excess of 1, Hi …I am a woman. I have tried the site twice in a year and found the same thing as Phil… so it goes both ways. Men have done the same to me. Most men on there seem to be looking for a Barbie. And seem to still be looking because in the 8 month between me trying I get the same faces. I was just looking for someone to spend time with my own age. To enjoy the rest of my life. Phil, Thank you for your review.
I was ready to join this site given the positive ads , however I guess I am a skeptic and thought it best to see what others thought. Your review helped via the treatment you have had from others. I am sorry for your experience and yet grateful for your review. Agreed with many of your comments. Even the most professional, diligent and customer-centric dating sites cannot filter out or block even a fraction of the scammers out there. Not unlike essentially every business out there, volume is the key for dating site survival.
Whatever type of relationship you are looking for, the only chance you stand for meeting someone with similar interests is to join a site and pay for a subscription. Those subscribers who pay for an upgrade are more likely to have a desire to meet someone. Or these promise to meet you and then shaft you.. I have answered some. Lots of married men and I am sure women on these sites, beware! The site offers many men and I have responded to a few with no reply. I am not ugly and have the same hopes as many do.
I had a problem with the site with one of my photos and customer service was very helpful. I have only been on for a couple of weeks and am definitely getting some scammers but I found that on other sites also.
There have been a couple of people that I have struck up conversations with and will see where that goes. Congratulations on reaching customer service.
Thank you to all who have shared their experiences of Our Time dating site. I thought this might be interesting, but I will not sign up because of the negative comments from the paying members.
They have sent many matches that are hours away or in other countries, not in the same city as I requested. Long distance more than 30 miles relationships are difficult at best. The ultimate parent of Match. Their Wikipedia yeah, that has its own problems page is less than flattering and once had a bright red header cautioning that it appeared to have been written as an advertisement.
I seems to me that the women get shafted most of the time on this site are men really that mean and hateful we are after all in the twilite of our lives thank you all for being around I will not be joining.
I am still a member of Our Time. Anybody know how to get out and get your money back? I have had them tell me these same few guys are viewing me nearly every day. The third one did not answer. The two that did said this site is good at doing that. Wish I had looked into reviews before paying for 3 months.
At 80, I learn something new every day. Ripped off is how I feel to say the least. I signed up for 1 month and my printed receipt said US They billed my credit card The excuse was that it was converted to US funds.
I complained by contacting them and I am waiting for a refund. The matches just like other sites are stupid. I am in Calgary and I was receiving matches that were anywhere 2 to 9 hours traveling time. My advise is to stop throwing away your money and join a gym at least you will get out of the house and get fit. Maureen, I am 74 and I got so discouraged by the matches, from all over the freeking country, or.. I knew the area, so it was obvious he was homeless lol. Then after getting that rectified I have found that the people on this site are older than George Burns.
Many of them without a picture. Also The website needs a total makeover its outdated and getting your inbox messages is more work than its worth. This site is awful do not waste your time. I just want to know what the heck that last guy in their commercial is standing in? It looks like a white washed, gutted railroad car.
I wish I had found this site before I signed up yesterday on Our Time. Thanks for the warnings, everybody. It sounds like it must be the seventh circle of hell. I paid with paypal also. Go to your paypay account and open the link named Peoplemedia Inc.
I just joined OurTime yesterday, I wish I had seen these reviews prior to joining. We will see if stopping payment through paypal makes a difference. Two immediate tip offs. If Our Time is so good, why would they be pushing other dating sites? Can someone help her? How stupid are these scumbags? Are they just a bunch of drunken frat boy programming students screwing around? I am hereby cancelling my membership with this site.
If I am charged for another month, I will do my utmost to ensure a negative reaction to your site, in ANY way possible! This site is a complete waste of time and money! Last I checked, sending money for something and getting nothing is theft.
That was the last straw. SO stupid and annoying! Well, people come in all different shapes and sizes and with different interests! Even with all the fakes on Match. Their interface is a mess. Tried seven times using three different credit cards and they were declined.
As a result, I found there is no support, no online chat with customer service, and they reject any attempt for you to send an email. If you tried to use your credit card, call your card company and make sure the charge is voided.
This site is a complete waste of money. I am canceling immediately. I am upset that I could be so gullible as to think that I could have any success on this piece of junk. I joined and paid and waited and waited and waited and still 5 days later have NO account and they took my money and there is only an other company people media to contact which can not help you, but match and outtime owns and runs christian , black love seek russian ALL the dating sites,, liars and theives, rip off with no way to contact.
I spent more time blocking men than responding to them and even the blocked parties were able to contact me again. I literally spent hours reviewing and deleting the same profiles or ones that were totally out of line with the the characteristics I indicated. Since this is all computerized, how hard can it be? I reiterate, how hard can it be to remove and prevent someone from this? OurTime is the worst of the worst. There are so many negatives that it would take a book to write it all down.
One thing I want to make clear is that I have read plenty of negative crap about illiterate sex crazed men. Well I have a lot of education and taught in college. I just wanted a quality woman to spend some time with. The women I met were rude, ugly, fat, stupid, very liberal which I am not.
I could go on, but you get the point. Seems like most of the dating websites are money making schemes that prey on honest well meaning people. I was thinking on joining our time but not anymore after reading the comments. The matches I got were actually unmatches and even scammers. Many pictures posted were repeat pictures from years back when I started joining. I wish someone can come up with a dating website with integrity and truly interested in helping individuals.
But let me backtrack. I only meant to try it for 1 month but got billed for 6. Apparently somewhere in the sign-up they made it convenient for me to hit the wrong button. When a mistake is made, it is all but impossible to get ahold of customer service or get a refund. They just send you all sorts of lengthy red tape to read. The daily matches are a joke. He seemed ok at first. He asked to move to private email because, he led me to believe, he was going to be leaving the site.
I cautiously agreed — but did not give him my primary email that is attached to anything else like accounts or anything. Pretty soon I noticed some troubling patterns.
He never actually responded to direct questions and his information was so generic and superficial favorite color, etc that I knew absolutely nothing about the guy. His messages seemed canned. And his command of the English language seemed to deteriorate. The last straw was when I sensed something was wrong and I confronted him politely about it. I asked him to please respond about the things I had talked about in my messages.
He sent another canned message about me being the perfect woman for him! I blocked and reported him. And it is not possible to check up on his profile or anything without unblocking him — which I am not about to do!
I had so many similar things happen with my profile as well. To add insult, I was charged more than what they advertised. I tried sending a message asking for it to be refunded the entire amount, or the difference. Are you mentally challenged? Save your money and go have a drink at the closest bar. They advertise a certain price for membership, but once they have your credit card number, they hit you with hidden add-ons. This is one of the worse dating sites out there.
There is no way to tell if anyone is actually interested in you unless they email you. I have been a member of OT for about 8 months, I do like a dating site for over I do not like that every time I log in chat is on and I cannot delete it permanently as you can on match.
I do not like that every time you just look at a profile , or daily match the other party thinks you are interested and have had interaction with a few who we both said the same thing that it is confusing.
I have talked to some real people and been approached by those who want me to reply to their private email scammer alert-widowed, earns k and is on business out of the country.
All sites have scammers free or paid for. There are picky men and picky women. Everyone skis, plays golf, walks the beach, wants the last love of their life and exercises 4 times a week..
Never understood why some do not post pictures or who do post family photos especially with kids that are now on the internet for all to see. On all sites some lie about their age to get better matches. When I first joined the world of online dating I responded to everyone being polite since they took the time to reach out but then when a couple of them yelled at me because I politely said I was not interested then I too stopped replying unless I was interested.
That is not a gender specific thing it is something all genders do. On all the sites you will see the same people and if you use two sites at the same time may see the same people with different login names but same photos.
Some people disappear and seem blocked then come back under another or same name not sure why. I did not know it was so hard to cancel a membership over time but will now check that out. All people get sick of the site they use and try something else hoping for a better outcome. It was truly a waste of time and money, filled with scammers and illiterates and stalkers.
They claim to have a college education….. I will not join another site after this experience. Just one more thing to add…this site will do whatever it takes including setting up false flirts and favorites to keep you as a member. I wish I could post my pic. To much to list.
Obviously millenial coders grinning about their abuse of us, and absolutely not people that care about their customers. It sends you your matches for the day but your actually routed to their full profile so it looks like your interested.
When I turned the automatic renewal off it proceeded to send me an email every 15 mins telling me I have flirts. The men are lying about their age because they look 70 and say they are To date people on these web sites. YOU go for Love. Most people think with there legs, not with there heart.
Women on all these web sites: They post past pictures like 15 yrs ago. Just go on on the webs. You will see all earlier pictures THEN they sneak there picture in , Then it is alike a couple years younger. Also the want younger men like 20 yrs less then their age. Then they bitch all men is lairs, cheaters etc. Your heart is in your chest not between your legs ladies. This is the worst dating site. Not sure what the deal is with them. And their mobile app is horrible. Plenty Of Fish is much better.
What no one mentions on here that I find incredibly concerning, is that I just found 23 profiles that rotate 3 profiles between them. If any Canadian user is sufficiently frustrated or aggrieved to consider filing complaints against this shill site, the following link is to the RCMP anti-fraud centre. Unless you do a special search every time.
I set him up with okcupid which is so much ore user-friendly. I regret helpings dad use this site. I am a 50 year old professional. I tried to cancel my renewal, which resulted in the site charging me for another automatic renewal.
Anyone thinking of joining this POS should look at the Wikipedia entry on People Media, the company supposedly running this crap. Wikipedia has its own issues, but at the top of the page that has a huge warning cautioning that it reads like it was written as an advertisement.
I am 63 year old male. Yes, I deleted two-thirds because of their looks, age, etc. Still plenty left and still getting 3 or more mails weekly. I have dated 5 ladies so far, two may be a match. If one comes up that looks good, you can click on the photo and view there profile, before saying you like them.
It has to be the slowest on the web. I contacted customer service about a email I received, a scam posing as OurTime. They were quick to respond and took action. I have been very satisfied with my results, would recommend it. For exactly the reasons you state! This site is the worse of all. I have been matched up with some real doozies. I even had a 23 yr. The ones that are somewhat nice looking are stuck up. Most are has-beens Some of them are vulgar or down in out rude.
There might be some good ones out there but where? My subscription will end Feb. I joined for 3 months and thats enough for me. I joined thinking I would find my dream man, that only happens in the movies or on their commercials. And about no photos or profile is a wake up call, what are they hiding???? Plus some of these people are married who needs that?
Ourtime just better not charge my credit card again if they do I will call my bank to cancel my card. I rather go out with someone I know not a stranger who coos you and tells you how beautiful you are without even meeting you.
To ourtime its a money making business…. My six month membership is a sunk and lost cost, but I found out how to cancel auto renewal. Can you all bear with me once more?
You can read my past gripes and fits if you like but let me add this one. I wanted to wait on it but I cannot. This is totally unbelievable. Over the past week, I received two particular views to my profile.
One of those views was from a woman listed as 29 but easily looks in their 60s. Another profile said she was 41 but the picture was likely someone over It may have been photoshopped as the image looked somewhat like a moderately healthy living Mother Theresa.
I can see a stretch to the 40s but 29, totally ridiculous, let alone that this was not the same person as the pictures.